Role Models

Greg's characteristicsScott's characteristicsArnie's characteristics
confidenceconfidenceconfidence
athleticathleticathletic
friendlyfriendlyfriendly
assertiveassertiveassertive
decisivedecisivedecisive
leaderleaderleader

acceptingaccepting

tender

helpful

loving

curious

bold

These role models are me!
I am: curious, loving, helpful, friendly, tender, accepting, assertive, athletic, confident, bold, leader, decisive, integrity, honest, truthful. 

"What would Scott do?"

Default:
Reacting because I feel threatened,
I will choose SURVIVAL over VALUES.		New me:
I can regulate myself and not live a life out of reactions, 
I can choose SURVIVAL over VALUES. 



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