Loser Award

It's 6am and I’m feeling very sad. I've been awake for 3 hours after some memories from when I was 18 have come up. I feel punched in the guts. The building where I charged my car the other day is next door to where my Year 10 formal was held. That got me thinking about my Year 12 formal where the students who organised it gave everyone awards (unchecked by teachers). I wasn’t in the dining hall when they gave them out, but a friend told me soon afterwards that I got some type of Loser award. 😢 I felt sad, rejected, crushed. I called Scott on video and he asked, “What are you feeling?” I couldn’t speak for over a minute, and I just cried. I felt a very heavy knot in my stomach, like the size and heaviness of a bowling ball. I also felt a heaviness on my shoulders, like someone was standing behind me pushing down on my shoulders stopping me from standing up. My mother had drummed in to me daily, "Don't be angry like your father." It's like I have a Jawa restr...